Men want to be good lovers. They often hide their performance anxiety and also their own needs to satisfied their women. He tends to speed up and become goal oriented. Because of this he doesn’t last long or can’t really satisfy his partner.
Women will because of this often try to fake their pleasure, but after a while she will close down and refuse him from having sex with her.
Jeroen and Paal will share their own journeys and experience to support men to be able to fully present with their partners.
Jeroen says that a woman needs to be fully safe and sense that the man doesn’t want anything from her. When he is patient, she can open up as a wildflower. Paal says that the man also needs to learn to receive and embrace his female sexuality to become a trustable partner.
We will go deeper into this topic in our Free Shadow Series.